Bill in Houston from Houston on 08/05/2021 09:53 AM
All of this is just my opinion, so take it all however you like.
Make sure to do some 2 day trips to see if you're even having fun. Enjoying a 20 mile ride, and riding 50 miles on gravel with 30 pounds of gear on back-to-back days are very very different concepts, no matter how similar they may seem.
The only bunkhouse/hostel I know of is in Tebbetts. You'll need to either camp or get a BnB everywhere else. We got BnBs , because if you camp and get bad sleep, the next day will be really bad. But, the BnBs are pretty pricey, in my opinion.
Riding 50 miles a day on gravel will require real food, and plenty of it. It's not the same as fishing. Some people love PowerBars and trail mix and can eat huge amounts of it every day, but I'm a big fan of getting off the bike, having real food, and recharging myself. Bagels, tortillas, peanut butter, salami, cheese, boiled eggs, dried fruit, can seem enough like real food to keep you from burning out. If one of you gets tired of the food and stops eating enough, you are on the fast train to Bonkville, and that's a bad place for a riding family to be.
Drink lots of calories. Kool-aid travels well.
Having three of you, and one being smaller, you might think about pulling a trailer for your stuff. Making the strongest rider pull the trailer helps prevent him/her from giving the others a beatdown.
The best saddle is the one that fits your rear. Very individual. My wife uses a saddle that most "real cyclists" say is terrible, but she outrides most of them, so we don't care too much what they say.
April is nice weather, unless it rains. And the plants are all blooming, and it's really pretty.
Bring a really good multitool, a patch kit, a pump, and three spare tubes. But have a plan for what to do if something more major happens, like a broken chain or derailleur.
If you can all stay fed and rested and don't try too many miles, you are going to have a really really great time, and make amazing memories.